"That's not what this is about," Jaina sighed. "Say I knew what happened to you in twenty years, and it's really terrible, but would only tell Tahiri and she can't say anything to you. Would you be okay with that? Would you want her knowing and keeping that secret? Because I'm not. And I'm really kriffing sick of being treated like a little kid with everyone else thinking they know best for me, and that's what it sounds like you're doing."